Posted by rose in scaesar.com
im gonna get a tattoo,do a total make over of myself but my mum is telling things to hurt my feeling....my mum tells that only bad girls get tattoos & cut their hair & dye it....i know im not what she says but do only bad girls do it or everyone???
i love piercings,loud music,& once in a blue mood i take alcohol(in not a social drinker)..im 21 i have been having the same boring hair style from the age of 8(to top it up i have lost almost 80% of my hair after coming to india due to the tremendous water,air pollution)...i want to grow my hair again thats why im cutting it off in the 1st place...am what i doin a bad or good thing by hetting myself a make over???
yes, your mom was right only bad girl will do it, she dont hurt your feeling but she give you advice coz she love you and she dont want you be like this
It's not bad at all. I mean, hey, it's your body and you're already 21. Your mother shouldn't have much say in it already.
I'm not a bad person (I think) and I want a tattoo and stuff :/ My hair was all different colors when I was a bit younger, but I've never done anything bad.
But really, just do what you want to do. Your mother's just a bit.. protective, I suppose.
you are nice girl
mom is old fashoned
Please do listen 2 ur mother.
YOU SHOULD ENJOY UR LIFE
u will find many people here who will support u and also those who will not.Its hard to say what is bad and what is good.I cant say much about haircut but before gettiong tatood one thing u must know that once it is done it will remain on ur body for whole life and probably in future if u would see beautifull girls without a tattoo i guess u would like to get rid of it.There are uncountable men who do not like tattoed girls and after all tattoo do not guarentee beauty.
Um okay i don't think your a bad girl?
mayb u shood eat some tuna
all sorts of people have tattoos and piercings you are old enough do do what you want
Ok, im so tired of people saying that stuff.
You are definatly not a bad girl what so ever.
It's your body. Your aloud to expiriment and try
new things. Doesn't mean your naughty or something.
I, too, dye my hair alot, so don't worry. And I want a tatto, too.
And people are like "That's so stamptramp." Stupid, I know.
Be true to yourself. Don't let them make you feel bad.
It's your body, your mind, your option.
uhhhhhhhhhh gal u r 21 n u r mature enuff to know whateva u doing is what u want. and m the same though now m in dubai so ***** get anythng done mainly Tatto thing due to hectic schedule. but I also like it. i have completed my 21. i want to dye my hairs want to get piercing done tattoing my body. whats wrong in that. Gal, in India parents r still somewhat of old age thinking if u earn urself y the heck u need to ask ur parents. if u r not earning than ofcourse u need to wait for smtime. but still this is not what only bad gals do, good gals also do so keep going. n enjoy
c m not a gal bt m a counsellor....
so the thing is that generally people who get tattoed r those who have faced hardships and mostly their tattoos r symbols of somethin they wanna represent.like i have a tatto of a ring of thorns....
its for my hardships or difficulties...
and its nt necessary that only bad guys get tattoed...
its hard bt nt bad....
so explain whatever is in ur mind and tell ur mom....
and since u r frm india the tradition here is quite consrvative as u know....
so what ur mother says is conservatism and what u r about to do is modernised or more like westernized...
so its upto u what u wanna do...
just the fact that ur asking this shows ur not a bad girl... maybe something happened in ur life that made u want to change everything in ur life, and i think its good. u can explain to ur mom that u need to change to feel better about urself, try to find why you need or want to do that and tell her... but maybe u should not do all those things at the same time. one thing at a time, so the change is not radical for ppl around u
hey i think u nt a bad girl at all, i love tattoos as well speacially in summer time,wot i do i gt some artifical tatoos tht can stay for 2 weeks on ur skin u can change thm any time. there is nothing rong 2 have hair cut and dye. u need 2 sit and talk 2 ur mother tht u r nt a child anymore,lookin after urself is a gud thing nt a bad,enjoy ur life as u wnt.
your mum just doesn't want you to ruin yourself. you should consider what you like best, and talk to her about stop making you feel guilty. it's fine to be into loud music, and everything, but it's all up to you. and NO, you're not a bad girl. stop taking our opinion, you need to think about it yourself.
your 21 as you say, but I still think your mum is right about one thing, a tattoo is not a very good idea. once you get it it is quite permanent and you could regret it later. 21 is quite an acceptable age to make your own decisions with regard to your appearance. good luck on whatever you decide. i don't think you are a bad girl nomatter what you decide.
you are not a bad girl , You just want to change to have a new you and start to life again cheers and have a good life
urgh no your not a bad girl. you're normal (Y)
Its Not really a bad thing but your mum may thinkyou being a bit extreme take it one step at a time...like just get urself a not to extreme haircut and see how you .like that theres no rush and you may rather end up not wanting the tatoo because your hair could be enough...also talk to people who have had tatoos before...you should really do your research before you jump into anything
Good Luck x
I wouldn't have made those same decisions, but it's your life, your body, and you don't need your mother's approval or permission. Just tell your mom that you're old enough to make your own decsions and her opinion has been heard, but it's your life.
You need to be true to yourself. And if exploring yourself in this way is how you want to do it (and you're not hurting yourself!), then why not? Just remember that the definition of maturity and adulthood is taking responsibility for your actions. So if somewhere down the line, these decisions cause problems or bring about good thigns, you have to accept it.
I also think your mom is stereotyping. Your appearance doesn't make you a bad person. Bad decisions make you a bad person. While I think tattoos and all that jazz is impractical, it doesn't make you a bad person. It sounds like rebellion to me (and everyone needs to rebel at some point) but just watch out for the bad stuff like drugs, stealing, promiscuous sex, etc.
i love piercings,loud music,& once in a blue mood i take alcohol(in not a social drinker)..im 21 i have been having the same boring hair style from the age of 8(to top it up i have lost almost 80% of my hair after coming to india due to the tremendous water,air pollution)...i want to grow my hair again thats why im cutting it off in the 1st place...am what i doin a bad or good thing by hetting myself a make over???
I'm not a bad person (I think) and I want a tattoo and stuff :/ My hair was all different colors when I was a bit younger, but I've never done anything bad.
But really, just do what you want to do. Your mother's just a bit.. protective, I suppose.
mom is old fashoned
You are definatly not a bad girl what so ever.
It's your body. Your aloud to expiriment and try
new things. Doesn't mean your naughty or something.
I, too, dye my hair alot, so don't worry. And I want a tatto, too.
And people are like "That's so stamptramp." Stupid, I know.
Be true to yourself. Don't let them make you feel bad.
It's your body, your mind, your option.
so the thing is that generally people who get tattoed r those who have faced hardships and mostly their tattoos r symbols of somethin they wanna represent.like i have a tatto of a ring of thorns....
its for my hardships or difficulties...
and its nt necessary that only bad guys get tattoed...
its hard bt nt bad....
so explain whatever is in ur mind and tell ur mom....
and since u r frm india the tradition here is quite consrvative as u know....
so what ur mother says is conservatism and what u r about to do is modernised or more like westernized...
so its upto u what u wanna do...
Good Luck x
You need to be true to yourself. And if exploring yourself in this way is how you want to do it (and you're not hurting yourself!), then why not? Just remember that the definition of maturity and adulthood is taking responsibility for your actions. So if somewhere down the line, these decisions cause problems or bring about good thigns, you have to accept it.
I also think your mom is stereotyping. Your appearance doesn't make you a bad person. Bad decisions make you a bad person. While I think tattoos and all that jazz is impractical, it doesn't make you a bad person. It sounds like rebellion to me (and everyone needs to rebel at some point) but just watch out for the bad stuff like drugs, stealing, promiscuous sex, etc.
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